Who ever said “Nice Guys finish last” wasn’t lying. Being a nice guy
is forever filled with let downs, its a cycle. You meet a girl, she says
you’re “different” and you give her ALL that attention and love. She
holds out on sex with you (even though everybody else has been pumping
her like a blowup bed) she fills you with sappy B.S. like “I think you
may be the one “and “you’re so nice to me”. All is well, until….all of a
sudden…she stops hitting you up so much. Days go by and it slowly turns
into the point where she wont even text you but once a day anymore. No
more hearts in text, no more playful flirting, it’s too late for you to
realize it… but she got bored with you. You were too nice, and women
love a chase… a thrill. If you treat her like you love her from the jump
then shes gonna tell herself in her crazy, confused woman mind, that
you’re boring, you may even come off as clingy to her. Shes gone. So you
go out and you find another girl to give all that love and attention
to. Truth is its going to keep happening to you until the women you talk
to are ready to settle out of their hoe phase and find a husband. If
you are a nice guy my advice to you is:
1:) Be more mysterious- Don’t show her how much you
like her from the jump, make her work for it. I know its hard but if you
don’t want her to think of you as clingy you have to develop some self
control.
2:) Don’t put all of your eggs into one basket- If
your a nice guy there are going to be a lot of women who will find your
personality less attractive the more they are with you, its just nature.
Have multiple options, and that doesn’t mean be a player. Just have
your eye on more than one girl. This will help you seem less clingy
because you’ll have more females to talk to when she doesn’t text back
or ignores you for awhile
3:) Most importantly CONTINUE TO BE YOURSELF!- Nice
guys may finish last when your young, but when she’s ready to find
a soul mate that “asshole” routine wont work. Shes going to need someone
who can show her real love and affection and only show it to her.
That’s you Bro.
Take this knowledge I just dropped on you and use it to your
advantage! No more being ignored, nomore nights of champagne and Take
care by Drake. Go out and get whats yours.
